The answer to that question is tomorrow, not today. Just quit tomorrow, go hard today and never stop, push yourself, use your willpower to make something happen. If you will give your very best and use all of your strength then there is a possibility that you will win. So keep trying today, try as much as you can and never stop, that's all you need to do, just don't stop and you will win. Because the reason why you can't improve and change your situation is because you're always stopping, you will work hard for a few hours and then will go back being a bastard again. You have to choose if you're going to work hard or become a bastard forever, there is no in between. If you will choose to work hard them make it your life, make it your culture. If you will decide to become a bum so be it, there's nothing wrong with that, waste your life but don't ever complain.
Friday, December 31, 2021
WHEN IS THE BEST TIME TO QUIT?
Monday, December 27, 2021
YOUR CLASSMATE HAS A NEW SHOE AND YOURS IS OLD
Don't be shy, don't get jealous of your classmate, be happy that he has it and be happy that you have yours. What makes your shoes ugly is your jealousy, stop comparing yourself to others, stop being envy of what they have and appreciate that you have what you have. Feel happy even if you have old things, feel powerful and strong even if you have a weak resources. It's all about having the state of abundance. Never give a shit if someone is laughing at you because you have some ugly things, never feel so low even if you're not part of the "cool kids". Be ok being an underdog, be ok not being popular, your time will come, this is your journey, never let anyone affects your mentality, always believe that one day is going to be your day. Focus on your goals, not on people. Focus on trying to get better each day and never feel shy about what you have, be proud of what you have, be appreciative, that's they key to happiness.
Wednesday, December 22, 2021
WHAT IF YOU'RE BROKE AND YOU CAN'T GET A BREAK
Keep living a broke life, that's it. If you're broke it means you can't spend so don't ever spend any of your money. Don't borrow some money from someone, don't eat, don't buy nikes, don't buy clothes, don't treat yourself, don't ever act like you have some money and putting images on instagram. Accept that you're broke and work really hard to change your situation. Look for a job, if you can't find one look again, seek hard and you will find. You can't be wasting time watching TV and scrolling on your social media accounts. If you're broke you're broke, stop treating yourself like a king, stop acting like you all have the time in the world to waste, you have to be in a sense of urgency, you can't be procrastinating and asking for a different life. You have to do whatever it takes to get out of the rut you are in and of course stick with the game plan... never spend your money and pay all of your debts.
Tuesday, December 21, 2021
WHAT IF YOUR COACH IS NOT USING YOU FOR THE GAME?
Let's say you're a good basketball player but your coach doesn't like you so he's not using you in the game. You feel so depressed, your confidence is going down and you're losing the trust in yourself, you're not motivated anymore because you knew you're not going to play for the next game. Here is what you need to do if you're in this kind of situation... work harder, follow your coach but follow your instincts too. Just pretend that you're listening to him, pretend that you're getting his inputs but when the time come that you're playing... you need to unleash yourself, you need to take as much shots as you can, never pass the ball, it's your time to shine because you never knew if he's still going to use you for the next game.
When you're on the court during pressure situation stop following the play designed for the star player, get the ball and drive or take a jump shot. It doesn't matter if you miss, it doesn't matter if your coach will shout at you, just ignore him but never show an attitude, just stay calm and never mind what he's saying.
Because at the end of the day he didn't trust you so why trust him, it's not that you're disrespecting him, you just need to give yourself a chance to succeed, if you're on the court for a limited playing time... shoot the ball as much as you can, that's what your mindset should be. It doesn't matter if you look like a fool out there, work as hard as you can and never stop playing.
Tuesday, December 21, 2021
IF YOU CAN'T SLEEP AT THE MOMENT, HERE'S WHAT YOU NEED TO DO
Don't waste your time lying on bed and day dreaming, don't feel pressure that you must fall asleep now because you still have a lot of things to do tomorrow so you need more energy. If it's already 3:45 am and you can't fall asleep yet then stand up, do something, work, do anything positive. Don't look at your cellphone, don't scroll on instagram, don't waste your time on social media, make yourself productive. Don't be afraid of the time, it will pass anyway. The one thing that you must be afraid of is if you're wasting a lot of time. Don't worry if you need to wake up early later but you haven't fell asleep yet, don't worry if you don't have enough energy stored in your body that you have to use later, just don't be scared to work now and do something positive for yourself and for your dream. Don't waste time lying on bed and worrying about your sleep, stand up right away and do something that will improve you. Read a book, do some push ups, study your lessons, hustle a little bit online. There are lot of things to do if you can't sleep, don't just lie on bed and take any second for granted, don't worry if you have no sleep, just be in the moment and make yourself productive every time you are awake.
Monday, December 20, 2021
WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE STUCK FOR A LONG TIME?
Has it ever happen to you when you keep on working hard, you keep on trying but it seems like you're always getting bad luck and not making anything work? do you ever feel stuck? the truth is you're not stuck, you just don't want a slow pace, you just want to become successful fast, you just want to become rich fast and doesn't want to undergo the process. You want shortcuts, you want to feel good, you want to look good fast, you don't want to struggle. In other words all you want is instant, you don't want to sweat for it.
You're not stuck, it's just a perspective, it's just you don't want to work hard. If you will work hard today and do everything to make a progress then you will make a progress, how can you be stuck if nothing can stop you from taking actions? it's too simple, just move and do something positive and you will never be stuck anymore. You feel so stuck because you're allowing yourself to be stuck.
Don't do the things that make you stuck, it's focusing too much on other people's lives, watching other people's journey on social media, watching too much K drama, etc. You have to force yourself to move and never take this day for granted, you will never become stuck if you keep moving. Just stop being lazy and you're good, work on yourself, make yourself better, work on something, chase your goals. You will never feel stuck again if you're not sticking on something that's not helping you.
Being stuck means not doing anything, you have to do something to avoid feeling that way. You don't want to take actions because you want to feel perfect, you want a smooth sailing, you don't want to struggle a little bit. But life doesn't work that way, you have to experience the difficulty of taking actions if you want to make a little progress. Just do it, just start it even if it doesn't feel right, it's better to be moving than not doing anything at all.
Monday, December 20, 2021
WHAT IF NOBODY WANTS TO HELP YOU?
There will be a point in your life where you will feel like a real loser. It's because nobody wants to help you anymore. Your girlfriend, family, friends and even your dog doesn't believe in you anymore. Even you, you don't believe in yourself anymore. Nobody wants to help because you already failed a lot of times and your potential is not promising, they already counted you out before you even try again for one more time. You will feel so low, you will feel helpless and hopeless. What are you going to do if this happens to you? There is no other way but to do it yourself, help yourself, take actions, work hard and push yourself to the limits. Even if nobody really wants to help you anymore, even if all of them were telling you to quit... still keep pushing forward and never stop. Do whatever it takes to win and get on top.
If nobody wants to help you so be it. It happens, you're alone, nobody cares, they don't want to listen to your ideas anymore because you couldn't even make a small progress. It's too predictable that you're going to lose but you should never quit, never think about it for a second. Keep fighting, fight for yourself, do it for yourself, have some pride and never quit. Even if they are giving you an advice that is a better way, even if everyone gets mad at you because you're not following their practical advice... still do it your way. Do it even if you have a lot of doubts in yourself, do it even if you're not sure that you're going to succeed. Do it even if the percentage of failing is very high, trust me... good things will come to those who take actions even if they are so scared.
Sunday, December 19, 2021
IS YOUR BOSS ABUSING YOU?
What if your boss is very abusive? what if he's always telling you to do something that is outside of your job? what if he's not paying you overtime? what if he's always embarrassing you infront of a lot of people and making you feel lesser of who you really are? what if you already worked your dumbass for ten years and still you haven't got any raise? there is only on solution for that... LEAVE!!
Leave right away and never wait, never give your boss another chance, leave that stinky company. The reason why people are abusing you is because you're letting them abuse you, as simple as that. You're letting them control you, you don't love yourself.
Saturday, December 18, 2021
IF SHE'S TEXTING YOU BACK
If she's texting you back then you should ask her out on a date. Don't overthink, don't wait, be aggressive. Don't act like she's just being friendly to you. You have to show your bad intentions, you have to be a little dirty and stop acting like a real gentleman. Girls love aggressive men, they love men who's willing to take risks and make decisions. If a pretty boy is afraid to ask a woman on a date then she will never get anyone. But if an ugly kid has a thick face and willing to embarrass himself to get a pretty chick's number then he already have an advantage over that pretty boy. It's because the power of trying is real, fate loves the brave, fate loves people who are willing to fail.
So if she's texting you back you better ask her if you can court her, ask her if you can carry his bag and be with her everyday. Ask her if she wants to eat some burgers with you. Don't be afraid to ask, don't be afraid to eat that woman. After all... that's what a woman wants... am aggressive guy who's willing to fail.
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