Stop looking for a perfect life because your problems will never go away, it will stay in your life forever. The key is to make yourself vulnerable to any kind of challenges. Be open and stop being too defensive, open yourself to anything that may happen and never give up, that's it. Focus on what you can control and that is your thoughts and actions, you can never control the external things. You can never force success to come, problems to disappear and luck to visit your life. You can only focus on the things that you can do, do something positive today, take care of your life, take care of your mentality and never give up. That's it, all you need to do is pretend to be tough and you will survive, if you're acting or pretending tough then you will become tough, you become wat you think about so never focus on problems because it will never go away, once the problem is gone another will come, this is life and it is not easy but you can still have fun a nd enjoy it, it all depends on your approach. The key is to stop praying for an easy life and just make yourself stronger, just promise to yourself to never quit and you will win.